Friday, June 25, 2010

Happy Birthday Papa

Thanks for the amazing gift of "loving me like that" ... which is by far one of the very best gifts I'll ever receive ... I love you, Dad ... always and forever ... xoxoxoxo



For PapAmore', Arend 'Odee' Lenderink

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Souls that have been Soaked in Tears

My Papa (along with my Mom - we read this all together, with my girls, on our "peeks of Lake Michigan views" front porch) gave me this awesome devotional shortly before he died called "Come Away My Beloved" by Frances J. Roberts.

The following is taken from it ... I'm actually transcribing the following (so you know I REALLY want to share it, ;) from excerpts of the chapter called Hold Fast.


I think it might speak to some of you, it has to me ... xoxoxo

Hold fast that which you have, and let no one take your crown.
Let no one hinder you in pursuit of the reward.
Let nothing stand in the way of your complete victory.
Let no weariness or discouraging thought cause you to loosen the rope of faith, but bind it tighter and anchor fast to My Word.

My Word can never fail, yes, and I will fulfill all My good promises. Have I not said, "He who seeks finds" (Matthew 7:8)? And have I not promised to reward those who diligently seek Me (Hebrews 11:6)?

Not the dilatory seeker, but the diligent seeker. Not the one whose seeking is in reality only wishing, but the one who has grown so intent in his quest, so wholly absorbed, that he is unaware in his toiling of the sweat upon his brow.

Never stifle the cry in your heart. God put it there.

God puts no special premium on our being perennial spiritual Pollyannas.

His joy springs forth most abundantly in souls that have been soaked in tears.

Not the tears of self-pity -never- but the tears of devotion and longing for him.

Weep. But when you weep, weep in His arms.

Doubt if you must, but candidly tell Him your doubts.

You will be surprised how quickly they will melt away.

His love and His smile will dispel every doubt as silently and surely as sunshine removes frost.

You cannot look in His face and doubt at the same time!

For PapAmore', Arend 'Odee' Lenderink
http://papamore.blogspot.com

Thursday, February 11, 2010

To Cherish

Thanks for so perfectly teaching and showing us the true meaning of this word ...









Main Entry: cher·ish
Pronunciation: \ˈcher-ish, ˈche-rish\
Function: transitive verb
Etymology: Middle English cherisshen, from Anglo-French cheriss-, stem of cherir to cherish, from cher dear, from Latin carus — more at charity
Date: 14th century
1 a : to hold dear : feel or show affection for ed her friends> b : to keep or cultivate with care and affection : nurture es his marriage>

2 : to entertain or harbor in the mind deeply and resolutely es that memory>
synonyms see appreciate
cher·ish·able \-i-shə-bəl\ adjective
cher·ish·er \-i-shər\ noun




Love has many different definitions, and we all love in different ways. However, think about some of these terms, and see how they fit your relationship.
  • Adore
  • Respect
  • Admire
  • Show affection
  • Show devotion
  • Find irresistible
  • Unselfishness
  • Loyalty
  • Care
  • Passion
  • Tenderness
Honor
Do we really honor each other? To some extent, most couples do, but how much more could we honor our spouses if we really think about what this term means?
  • Respect
  • Admiration
  • Integrity
  • Deference
  • To treat honorably
  • To fulfill terms of an agreement (vows)
Cherish
To cherish someone is to love and honor them as much if not more than you love yourself. It is the most meaningful of the terms, in my opinion. People can love each other, or care for each other, without cherishing one another. If we truly cherish each other, how can we have anything but happy and lasting marriages?
  • To keep first in one's mind
  • To treasure another
  • To value deeply
  • To hold dear
  • To prize above all else
  • To treat with gentleness and tender care
  • To esteem
  • To appreciate
  • To treat with utmost importance
 


For PapAmore', Arend 'Odee' Lenderink
http://papamore.blogspot.com

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Papa's First Birthday in Heaven

 On January 11th, 2010 ...


"I love you, Papa!" 
My precious Anna screamed ... as she released her Sky Lantern towards Heaven, towards our PapAmore'

































 


































 

For PapAmore', Arend 'Odee' Lenderink
http://papamore.blogspot.com

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Papa's 1st Christmas in Heaven

Christmas In Heaven
© Written December 22, 2003 by Kris Smith



We've shared our hearts, full of Holiday Cheer
and shopped for presents for loved ones this year
The house is dressed up with garland and lights
That sparkle and shine through the Holiday nights


But even with all of this Holiday bliss
There's someone we lost that we terribly miss
And as this Christmas Day draws near
We wish with all of our hearts he was here.


He's living his life way up past the stars
Somewhere past Jupiter, Saturn and Mars
he's spending his Christmas in Heaven, you see
And last night as I slept, a dream came to me


He was standing before me, happy and well
he said to me "I have something to tell…
Heaven's more wonderous than you would believe
It's the greatest of gifts I could ever receive.


I'd like for you all to remember the good…
You know that I'd be there if only I could.
So don't feel so bad that I'm not there
There are so many memories you can share


As you gather together, I'm sure you'll find
The gifts deep within you that I left behind.
Each one is unique and wrapped brightly in love

They shine from your hearts as I shine from above."


For PapAmore', Arend 'Odee' Lenderink